Have you ever encountered a situation where a healthcare power of attorney made a significant difference? What guidance would you offer to someone thinking about setting one up?
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Answered by Gregg Matheny on July 5, 2025
Agent Licensed in AZ & UT
Hi there, Mark Bilgere with Bilgere Insurance, and we're answering some more questions here on Agent Hub. This question today is a little bit longer, but the answer is pretty short. The question is, have you ever encountered a situation where a health care power of attorney made a significant difference? And what guidance would you offer to someone thinking about setting one up?
Well, I'll actually go backwards. The guidance I would give is absolutely set one up. Every person, every senior citizen, I believe that has someone else who's going to help them at some point needs to do this earlier as opposed to later.
Have you ever encountered a situation where it was helpful? I absolutely have. My father-in-law granted power of attorney, not just for health care but for his finances and everything. To my wife, he was progressively getting worse from chronic kidney disease. He was having to go to the dialysis center, and then we started doing it at home. But he still had to go to the nephrologist office pretty often. He was having some TIAs, so we were taking him to a neurologist, of course, his primary care physician, all those people.
Not only do people sometimes not have the ability to make their decisions, they just lose interest. They honestly just get beat down by the constant medical attention and stuff that they don't want to participate in. And that was easier for my wife to go ahead and help make decisions for him at the time.
Along with that, the other thing you need to make sure you have in place is your living will. What a lot of us would call a DNR, do not resuscitate. Those things, if you don't want them to go to extreme measures, you have to let them know. Otherwise, especially first responders are required to try to help. So get those in order. You'll need multiple copies. Have one at home, have one at the specialist's office, have one at your primary care doctor's office on file there, and have one at your hospital on file there. Because if they don't have it, you can't tell them, "Oh, I have one at home," or "I have one in another doctor." They need to have it there.
A lot of those you can do online. Most states, you can find them yourself and do it. Get it notarized if you want. Most attorneys can handle that. It's not super expensive, and it doesn't take a lot of time. But if you need that confidence, they'd be happy to do that for you.
So get your affairs in order long before you need to. You can always rescind it, you can always change it. It's an excellent thing to have, get power of attorney, and it makes everyone's life easier. Thanks!
Answered by Mark Bilgere on March 13, 2026
Broker Licensed in TX, AR, IN & LA, MN, NE & OK
Answered by Terri Reagin on July 7, 2025
Broker Licensed in OK, AR, CO & 6 other states
Answered by Christopher Boyd on August 8, 2025
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Answered by Luke Rhoads on July 5, 2025
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Answered by Robert Pennington on July 21, 2025
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Answered by Angie Templin on August 5, 2025
Broker Licensed in TX
But ALSO please take into account your assets (car, furniture, etc.) and if you have a significant estate and you have seen a trust attorney, that was an excellent idea. I don't believe that you'd need to do anything else along those lines since your home is possibly your #1 asset which needs to be protected. Unfortunately, there are many families that I have encountered who have a tough time with some family members; jealousies can be rampant and it's a good idea to check with other family members to investigate if there may be one member who has purposely hidden something from you which entails your own properties. But if you cannot think of anyone that fits that description, now it is time to just participate in a FREE consultation with a trust attorney to determine if your estate is truly worth protecting. But if you have very few assets, other than your car and your furniture, it might not be particularly necessary for you to consider anything more. Good luck, though!
Answered by Steven Bleicher on July 6, 2025
Broker Licensed in AZ
Answered by Diane Walker on October 21, 2025
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Answered by Alicia Tyring on November 17, 2025
Broker Licensed in IN, AL, AR & 42 other states
If you are considering establishing a Healthcare POA, Choose the Right Person: Your agent should be someone who remains calm under pressure, understands your values, and is willing to follow your wishes even if they disagree with them. Be Specific: Don't just sign a generic form. Discuss specific scenarios, such as your feelings on life support, blood transfusions, or hospice care. Distribute the Document: Once signed, give copies to your primary care physician, your insurance agent, and your designated representative. A POA is only helpful if the hospital can find it when they need it. Setting this up isn't about "giving up control"; it's about ensuring you have a handpicked advocate ready to speak for you when you can't speak for yourself.
Answered by Danielle Jimison on April 6, 2026
Broker Licensed in OH & PA
To set up a POA, first identify someone you trust to be your agent. Find out the specific rules/laws in your stae of residence. Complete the oficial form from your state. Give copies to your POA, your doctor, your family, and be prepared to provide one to your insurance carrier.
Answered by Ana V. Magalhaes on December 29, 2025
Broker Licensed in MA, AZ, CA & 7 other states
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